Yesterday I found out I’d got the job I wanted! as I was walking home, I decided I should concentrate on having a new job/moving out/generally enjoying my life and that definitely means taking a break from this place. I started out thinking tumblr discussions would help me work some things out in my head… and I have learned a lot… unfortunately I think tumblr is making me even more paranoid about meeting other lgbt people which really is the last thing I need. When I move back to London I need to be going out and meeting new people and I need to do that without the preassumption that all these tensions are going to exist. In addition some of the discussions here are exacerbating long term anxieties I have and I can’t seem to block them effectively with tumblr saviour.
I’ve deleted most personal/controversial stuff off my page and if I do post anything again it will be animals and comedy gifsets. If you want to unfollow me I really won’t be offended.
If anyone I’ve interacted with wants to stay in touch, you can PM me and I will read it because I get the email notifications.
"Women feel more guilt than men, not because of some weird chromosomal issue but because they have a history of being blamed for other people’s behavior. You get hit, you must have annoyed someone; you get raped, you must have excited someone; your kid is a junkie, you must have brought him up wrong."
Guilt Poisons Women by Germaine Greer (via mymangotree)